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Often, I have an encounter with a woman whom I find to be attractive in one fashion or several.  Often times I find certain characteristics she has to be unattractive and this leads me to tread litely in my approach.  However, I have found that women find such a thing to be unattractive for two reasons.  Which are resentment toward the man and a perceived lack of confidence in the man.

The resentment comes about in that they can percieve that the man is not liking something about them and a narcissistic tenancy takes hold of them and causes an emotional response that generally leads to directing insecurities unto the man as his fault.  When instead she should simply ask him what is wrong in earnest and then accept his answer in a healthy manner.  Such as not responding with something like, “Huh… Interesting.” followed by making an excuse to leave the situation.

When it comes to the perceived lack of confidence, I much prefer having to deal with the first flaw than this second.  Plainly put, women who don’t have the perceptive abilities to realize that it is that they are found to be unattractive in some way and not that the man is ill confident are fucking morons.  All too often, women mistake bravado and a man’s poor careless choice in dating partners as confidence.  A man who keeps smiling and keeps up the charm after hearing a women make really dumb statement usually doesn’t care to about being with someone who is of quality.

I would really like to meet more women who understand that it isn’t that a man slows down because he doesn’t know what he wants in a women or is unsure of himself.  It is that he knows what he does not want and is trying to give her a chance to re-convince him that his wallet won’t go to waste on taking her out.  I do realize that there are many, many women out there who can do this, but they are overwhelmingly in the 35 plus age range.  Since I’m 27, I still want some young hot tail.

Maybe I’m wrong about all this stuff, but I really doubt it.

And in case anyone did not understand the title.  What I’m saying is that too many women need for a man to edify their sexuality for them instead of doing some self probing and edifying them selves.

Three years ago, I wrote a few beginning pages of a novel about John Stewart.  I ended up losing the pages due to a reformatting mistake of my computer.  At the time, I had heard news of a possible Green Lantern movie.  I had also heard that it would be featuring Hal Jordan or Guy Gardner as the main character.  I thought this to be very odd since John Stewert was the featured Green Lantern in the animated series of Justice League and Justice League Unlimited.

Although, I can understand the marketing of not using John Stewart as the main character.  Plainly put, many viewers are much more comfortable with white heroes.  And when they do see an African American hero, they want it to be in the fashion of Hitch.  A morally and ethically decayed Black man who needs the help of someone White to be all that he can be.  Don’t get me wrong- I liked Hitch.  It was funny and even endearing to me.  But John Stewert simply isn’t that type of character and I don’t think people are ready to see him on the big screen.

Hopefully I”m wrong.  Anyways, I am going to write a novel that features John Stewert.  It will be free and updated with a few pages at least once a week.  I hope you all enjoy it.